"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and discover they were the big things." -Robert Brault

Monday, September 12, 2022

Opa is good at everything

Our first floor toilet had a water trickling sound every few hours. I decided to fix it. I replaced everything inside, and I was pretty proud of myself. 

After I did that, though, the chain was getting stuck under the new flapper, causing even more water to run. I tried to adjust the rod attached to the flushing lever, but the whole thing cracked off. I bought a replacement, but the old one was so corroded I couldn't get it to unscrew.

I, once again, ended up calling my dad. He's done most of our repairs for us, especially things at the cottage. And, this summer, he's fixed up every repair I originally thought I might be able to handle myself. So, here we are again! 

In the mean time, I rigged a string through the hole of the flushing lever and a clothespin so the string didn't get pulled in too far.

This morning, the twins were asking if they could go to the bathroom. I said, "Yep. Just make sure that the clothes pin is up against the toilet so that the flapper closes.

Luke went to the bathroom and came out and said, "Mom, I don't think we can just flush the toilet with a clothes pin for long. It's embarrassing!"

"I know," I replied, "Opa is coming to fix it tomorrow." 

Ally shook her head, full of pride,"Opa is good at everything! He's a good plumber, a good woodworker, a good engineer. He's so smart!"

Totally, Ally! I agree!

The clothes pin Luke didn't like. I don't understand his issue it was so fancy...
My dad fixing the cottage bathroom earlier this summer (after I'd attempted it on my own).






Sunday, September 11, 2022

Dave made brats on the grill for the game tonight. After grilling them, he soaked them in a mixture of stadium sauce and beer that he’d reduced to a thick sauce. I obviously can’t have beer because of my gluten intolerance, so I kind of wiped the brat off. 

When I was nearly done eating, he was talking about how good his sauce was, and he tried to scoop more sauce onto my gluten free bun. 

I said, “I actually can’t have that, because there’s gluten in the beer.” 

He said, “I cooked off all the gluten. I boiled it.”

I said, “It doesn’t work that way.”

He continued, “Yeah, I cooked it off.”

I said, “You cooked off the alcohol but gluten doesn’t cook off.”

I think he realized then he was wrong. But, he was now being annoying, so he started to insist that it was such a high temperature it cooked off. I pointed out that he boiled it, but pasta is also boiled in water. And how most items with gluten are baked at a minimum of 350 degrees, our pizza recipe is 450 degrees.

He continued and he was driving me crazy, so I was like, “Amazing! It looks like I can now eat anything as long as I bake it at a higher temperature.”

I reached into the cupboard and started tossing everything into the oven, bread, buns, pasta, cookies and I exclaimed, “I can’t wait to eat all this!”

Kate was cracking up.

The other three were staring at me.

Then Luke said, “Oh, my gosh. Dad broke mom.”

 Taking a break 14 miles into our 18 mile bike ride yesterday


Monday, September 5, 2022

Twelve!

 These two amazing kids turned 12 this summer.



On their actual birthday, they got a quadruple scoop at the Hamburger Haus, something they'd wanted to try for years. That's not four scoops. It's seven. We kind of hoped they'd be piled up high like on the picture, but they were split between two cups.

Because they wanted their parties up at the cottage and summer availability can be tricky, Luke had his party in June. Ally was supposed to have hers in early August, but she came down with Covid the day before, so her party wasn't actually until September.

The kids swam, tubed, jet skied and grilled hotdogs and s'mores over the fire.

Tuesday, August 30, 2022

Barre, Yoga

Last school year, I spent four or five mornings a week at the JCC - Jewish Community Center (the local gym at which I'm a member). Every morning, I was greeted by Joe, the incredibly friendly older man who works at the front desk, and it always set my day off right. I attended my favorite yoga class two days a week and worked out with my friend Merri the other three days each week. It became my happy place. The exercise helped me feel better and focus more on my teaching and parent coaching, as well as on being the mom and wife I wanted to be.

Joe at the front desk started to encourage me to come work there, since, as he said, I was there all the time anyway. I told him I had no qualifications whatsoever to work there.

I looked into getting certified as a personal trainer, but what I really wanted to learn was about muscles, and specific exercises for specific needs. Instead the program covered more how to work with people, which I've been doing for the last decade.

I'd often entertained the idea of teaching yoga, but the training programs are at least $2500, usually more, and instructors usually make less than $25/class. The programs also take a good part of a year, including weekends, which I like to spend with the kids. So, I'd never followed through on that idea.

While I was entertaining the idea of how to get into teaching group exercise, I mentioned it to the secretary at the kids' school. She told me about an opportunity to get trained to teach Barre through the WAC - Wisconsin Athletic Club (our other local gym) for only about $100 and in only seven weeks. That sounded perfect, except for one thing. I'd actually only ever gone to one Barre class, and I'd hated it so much I never returned. But, that was years ago. I was a different person... and I was up for trying something new. 

The seven week program didn't leave me feeling prepared me to teach, but it did get me excited to teach. I took another program online and applied to the WAC and the JCC. I had to have an audition, which was to teach a class to people who worked there, including those who'd hire me. I asked the women in my yoga classes to allow me to teach them some practice classes before I auditions, and then, in May, I auditioned.

I was offered a job at both places. Since I wanted to teach four days a week, and most places only hire a person two days a week, I accepted both positions.

I didn't want to start weekly classes until the fall so I could have the summer with the kids and be out of town as much as I wanted to be, so I began subbing at both gyms for other teachers who were gone. I only took the classes that I wanted to take.

After a couple weeks of subbing, the WAC was looking for a sub for a yoga class. I wrote to my boss that I wasn't trained for yoga, but I've been doing it for 11 years, and that I'd sub if she wanted me to. She asked if I felt 100% comfortable teaching yoga. I wrote back the I felt a lot more comfortable teaching yoga than I did teaching barre. She allowed me the chance.

I subbed that class and then was offered other yoga classes, so I taught yoga a bunch of times over the summer. 

This fall, I'm teaching two barre classes at the JCC, one at the WAC, and a barre yoga fusion at the WAC. In October, I'm going through a program (that will only cost me $25 since I'm an employee) at the WAC that will officially certify me to teach yoga there. I'm excited to learn ways I can tweak what I've been doing.
 
It's been a super fun adventure. I love teaching, and I've always enjoyed teaching my Love and Logic classes. But I also love new challenges., and trying something brand new in my mid-forties has been a challenge. I've really been enjoying it.





 

Saturday, August 20, 2022

Forty freaking six?

Time passing is weird. It sometimes gives me an out of body feeling. How did I go from being a teenager to bing three times that old. How did I go from having babies to having high schoolers? How am I closer to 50 than to 20... or even to 40?! 

I remember my Grandma Gebler telling me she didn't understand how she was suddenly so old. I totally get that. I'm sure the next forty years will feel even faster than the last forty.

Here was my birthday out on the water.


 

Friday, August 19, 2022

The little moments

I have two friends who I really love to text. One of them is really insightful and the other just cracks me up. She sends hilarious stuff, but she also enjoys my ridiculous thoughts. Here's an exchange today that made me smile.






Clever kid

I wanted to make stuffed zucchini, since we have zucchini coming out of our ears right now.

I was going to stuff it with the same mixture I use for stuffed peppers (ground turkey, black beans, diced peppers, Mexican spices), but Kate encouraged me to use the mixture we use for stuffing portobellos (Swiss chard, feta, parmesan, mozzarella). 

Dave and I liked the zucchini, but it wasn't a big hit with the kids.  Ally looked at the filling and commented, "The mushrooms wear it better."



Wednesday, June 1, 2022

National Honor Society

 Kate made it into the National Honor Society. No surprise, of course, but we're so proud of her!


Tuesday, May 31, 2022

Mother's Day

 Oh, my goodness. Dave and the kids gave me the best Mother's Day I could have ever wanted.

Kate planned out everything we'd do.

After a delicous breakfast in bed of Huevos Rancheros,
the kids gave me some incredible gifts and very, very sweet notes. 
The notes made me cry and cry!

Luke made me an entire book called 50 Great Things about Mom.
I cried and cried some more! 

Two gluten free bundtletts!

They gave me a DNA test to see what kind of a cat Milo is!

We went to the Audubon and collected rocks and beach glass.

And saw a program about birds!

The best gift, of course, is the incredible family I get to enjoy every day, but I sure do love being spoiled!

Sunday, May 22, 2022

Dave!

The day I got home from Europe, I remember noticing a picture that I hadn't remembered framing on the top of our bookshelf. In my jet lagged, exhausted, and sick (I got a bad cold) state, I didn't look close, and I didn't think about what had actually been there. I just remember thinking, "Strange" and moving on.

It wasn't until yesterday, when Dave and the kids were giggling about how I never noticed something that I looked closer and realized what had happened.

I'd had this picture of me nursing the twins up there.

Dave had the twins pose for a new picture and replaced it with this.

What an ass. Hilarious!!



Tuesday, April 26, 2022

Two volunteers

Kate and Anna are so great with kids. 
This is them volunteering for Family Gathering Night for HIPPY.

Back in my day...

The twins were talking about some of the naughty things the kids in their classes do. 

Kate commented, "Kids didn't act that way when I was in sixth grade."

Ally explained, "Yeah, but back then, the kids didn't have Tik Tok influencing them."

I think I'm raising middle age children who reminisce about how much better things were when they were young and blame technology.

Friday, April 22, 2022

Best. Trip. Ever!

Kate and I took one of the most amazing trips I've ever been on. 

(I'd say it was the most amazing, but I'm married to someone who has planned and taken our family to some incredible national parks, including my favorite, Yellowstone, and a very close second, The Dry Tortugas, where we got to snorkel with barracudas, electric eels, and less deadly beautiful fish.) 

As long as I can remember, I've wanted to go to England and Ireland. I've been obsessed with British culture. I've been telling Dave for years that we should go, but the trip isn't practical, or affordable, with a family of six. So, in early February, I told Dave that I really wanted to go soon... like now. We talked about how he travels with friends every couple years, and I never do. I'd rather go with one of the kids, so maybe I should look into taking each of the kids on a special trip when they're in high school. He thought this spring break would be perfect, since he had to work.

So I got to work planning a surprise trip for Kate. I began by looking at everything I'd like to see in England, Scotland, and Ireland. When I realized that spring break was a good six months too short to see  everything I wanted to see, I began to prioritize. I decided to focus on Ireland, but I knew Kate really wanted to see London, so I also planned to go there for a couple days.

I talked to a travel agent, but the price was way out of our budget. When Dave and I were at Costco, I joked that I wondered if Costco Travel had trips to Ireland. Well, it turned out they absolutely did. They had options for just Ireland, for London, Scotland, and Dublin, and they had one that was London and part of Ireland, just what I wanted. I found one that covered the flights, including a flight from London to Dublin, shuttles to and from the airport to the hotels, all the hotels, a car rental, and breakfast every day for about half of what the travel agent had quoted.

On March 18, I picked Kate up from school and my parents drove us to Chicago to get a flight to New York. From New York, we flew overnight and landed in London Saturday morning.

I hadn't gotten any sleep on the flight, and Kate had only gotten a little. When we got into the shuttle at the airport, I got in behind what I was thinking was the passenger seat and wondered why it was so far back. Then I noticed the steering wheel on the opposite side, and in my exhaustion, I found this completely amazing. It was like it dawned on me we really were in England. I began to giggle and giggle. Kate just raised her eyebrows at me.

When we arrived at the hotel, it was only about 9 am, so our room wasn't ready. We washed up in the bathroom and went to walk around. We hadn't gotten far when they called and said our room was ready. I was so exhausted, I really wanted an hour and a half nap, but Kate convinced me to limit myself to 20 minutes. That, and the first of many, many cups of tea, actually rejuvenated me, since we were so excited.

So we hit the town.
Every room had wonderful English Breakfast (or Irish Breakfast in Ireland) tea and all the fixin's, milk, sugar, and brown sugar. I have never thought of adding brown sugar to my tea, but I loooved it. 
Since I'm a tea drinker living in a coffee drinking country, I loved the priority placed on tea. 

We saw the red telephone boxes!
We noticed that in London, there are basically no street signs.
The streets themselves are labeled.
This zig zag means that you're approaching a crossing area.
We ended up taking the Underground all over. It was incredibly convenient. 
We never waited more than two or three minutes and it felt completely safe.
.
The complimentary breakfasts were not like continental breakfasts you get in the states.
They were fancy, full service breakfasts with more food options than anyone could eat.
Since the majority of the world drives on the right side,
they remind you everywhere what way the traffic will be approaching from.
Even with the reminders, I almost walked in front of traffic more than once.
On Sunday, we went on a 12 hour tour that went to Windsor Castle (where the queen lives on the weekends), the Roman Baths, and Stonehenge.
Windsor Castle was incredible.
You couldn't take any pictures, but they had incredible collections of art and pottery,
much of which was over five hundred years old. 
Stonehenge was awe inspiring. To think that these rocks were brought hundreds of miles before any modern technology was invented...
The Roman Baths were fascinating.
We saw a collection of coins that dated back over a thousand years...
maybe more... and were so detailed.
Every hotel room had robes and slippers.
We saw most of the landmarks we wanted to see in London on Saturday,
 and we saw the rest Monday morning. Tower Bridge and Buckingham palace were two of my favorites.
Monday afternoon we flew to Dublin and explored the city a bit that evening.
Tuesday morning we rented a car and started out exploring Ireland. 
I did NOT do well driving that first day. We drove five hours that day, and I barely made it.
Thankfully Kate was incredibly helpful.
This castle was in a tiny little town. We ate at a diner there with all the locals.
The roads in Ireland were crazy.
They were very narrow, very curvy, lined with rock walls, hedges, or mounds, and full of sheep.
I was getting the hang of the whole left side of the road,
right side of the car thing by this time.
You can't be fat in the stairwells in these castles.
Neither of us understood that kissing the Blarney Stone
required us to be hanging upside down 85 feet in the air.
This fern garden at Blarney Castle was so lush and green.
One day for lunch we got chips (fries) and...
...crisps (chips).
The Cliffs of Moher!
We hired (rented) bikes to ride around one of the Arran Islands.
It was very hilly, and very beautiful!
This is the Library at Trinity College where they have the Book of Kells
and a huge collection of very old books.
Trinity College... I think it would be so cool to go to school in Ireland or England.
We ate in a pub our last night in Dublin and soaked up the local life.